1. take two parts “what do i need or can i do to bring my expression and presentation closer to a self-actualization of my gender”
2. add one part “what do i need or can i do to have my gender marginally respected/recognized/validated by the world around me”
3. let it sit for a spell to soak up all of the myriad fears, doubts and revelations then douse it all in a heaping helping of “fuck you, you can’t tell me how to be a girl.”
4. Serve as chilled or piping hot as I damn well please/need. Do so by any means necessary.